As the most populous city in New Zealand, and home to over 1.3 million people, the swinging scene in Auckland is fairly active, served by a handful of clubs holding regular Lifestyle events.
There are a variety of swinger clubs, members-only events and private sex parties… but for obvious reasons, they’re not heavily advertised on Facebook. You have to know where to look.
And that’s where our Auckland Swingers guide comes in. We’ve curated our pick of the top swinger venues and private sex parties across the City of Sails. And we’ll also check out some of the best online communities for meeting fellow Lifestylers.
What Are The Best Swinger Clubs in Auckland?
It’s fair to say, our list of active swinger venues is not particularly huge. But there are a few gems in here that are definitely worth checking out if you’re visiting Auckland.
CCK Club
246C Hobson Street, Auckland Central, New Zealand
With its modern décor and ambient lighting and interior the CCK is a popular place to start your search.
The club features a fully stocked bar, with Vixen adult videos playing throughout. It certainly sets the scene for some extracurricular playtime, and that’s exactly what you’ll find kicking off here as the night progresses.
There are five main play areas as well as a “grope tent”, St Andys Cross and Swing, dancing pole and cage and black room. There are modern wash facilities and the environment is both clean, safe and secure.
An outside space is heated for smokers and management provide complimentary body lotions. A dancefloor plays Euro house music to keep the party going long into the night.
This venue runs a regular steam of events throughout the week, including:
- Wicked Wednesday – the only night open to couples, single ladies and single gents, making it ideal for male newcomers or M/F/M threesome seekers.
- Chillout Thursday – couples and single ladies only.
- Fantasy Friday and Sensual Saturday – the main CCK party nights, when the club is at its busiest.
Each evening usually kicks off around 9:00-9:30pm and, while doors close at midnight, the fun often continues until 3:00am on weekends.
Theme nights are a big part of CCK’s charm… you might find leather & lace parties, masquerade balls, or kinky costume themes on any given weekend. There are also special events throughout the year (the Christmas and New Year’s swinger parties) that often sell out in advance.
Tickets are priced according to your ‘status’ (from $35 for single females, up to $130 for single guys). Entry for couples starts from $70 in the week, or $100 on weekends.
The Chilli Club
3122 Great North Road, New Lynn, Auckland 0600
With a history spanning well over a decade, The Chilli Club is a staple of Auckland’s lifestyle scene.
Unlike CCK, which runs on a fixed weekly schedule, Chilli operates more like a private hire venue for a rotating mix of swingers, kink and fetish events.
The club itself is tucked away in New Lynn, which is about a 20-minute drive from central Auckland.
Discreet from the outside, it opens up into a spacious, well-equipped play space inside. You’ve got a fully licensed bar, dance area, shower facilities, a pole stage with mirrors, dungeon furniture, and even a purpose-built “glory box” for those who want to keep the thrills strictly… anon.
It’s a flexible setup that can be reconfigured depending on the event – so it inevitably plays host to everything from open-floor orgies to rope workshops to small intimate swinging get-togethers.
Events are hosted by different promoters, so the schedule changes constantly.
On one weekend you might see a swinger meet-and-greet, on another a full-blown gangbang party or a latex-heavy CHOKE fetish night. Most of these events are ticketed in advance (anywhere from $20–$100 depending on the scale and inclusions), though some allow door sales. Check their website or FetLife for listings – from what we’ve seen, showing up randomly on a Friday isn’t going to cut the mustard.
Door policies vary too.
Some nights are strictly couples and single ladies, while others (especially the gangbang events) throw open the doors to single guys… and in large numbers. Dress codes change with the theme; “tidy and sexy” is always the baseline. Good hygiene is a no-brainer!
Again, it will vary by event, but the crowd at Chilli Club tends to be a little younger and edgier than CCK’s established crew – expect more tattoos, leather, and crossover with Auckland’s famously active BDSM scene.
Greedy Girls
Special events around Auckland (including at CCK Club)
Greedy Girls isn’t a fixed-location club but rather a long-running series of Auckland sex parties that sways decisively towards the more…uhh, extreme end of the Lifestyle.
Yes, think gangbangs, orgies and bukkake parties.
Their schtick is usually pretty simple: one or more adventurous women, a room full of men, and a whole lot of action. If your fantasy leans towards M/F/M or full-on gangbang scenarios, this is where it comes to life.
Events have traditionally run twice a week – Tuesday nights from 8:30pm, and the first Friday of every month as a midday session kicking off at 11:00am. A morning gangbang?
Perfect way to bring in the weekend, mate!
Parties are usually hosted at CCK’s venue on Hobson Street, though from time to time they’ve popped up in other private locations around the city.
The door policy is wide open. Couples, single women, and single men are all welcome. In fact, the events are known for being male-heavy, so solo gents are the bulk of the attendees. You’re obviously going to get a bit of a skewed demo with a massive gangbang party, right?
Pricing is straightforward: men pay around $100 cash at the door, while women get in free.
Probably not the smoothest initiation for a nervous first-timer, but if you’re familiar with the Lifestyle and just want to let your hair down (or empty your balls)… the Greedy Girls calendar is one to keep an eye on.
Popular Auckland Swinger Websites
Not every meet-up in Auckland happens in a club. In fact, most of the swinging goes on behind closed doors thanks to our good old friend… the Internet.
Yep, a huge amount of the city’s swinging scene lives online, with people chatting, organising private parties, and scoping each other out long before any clothes come off. If you’re new, getting yourself on the main swinger sites is basically step one. Here are the three that Aucklanders actually use:
Kiwi Swingers
https://www.kiwiswingers.co.nz/
This is the big one for NZ, and the first port of call for most locals.
Kiwi Swingers has been around since 2006 and has tens of thousands of members across New Zealand, with Aucklanders making up a huge chunk. They claim over 150,000 members in total.
Setup a basic account and you’ve got personal profiles, photo galleries, forums, webcam chat, and most importantly, event listings.
Clubs like CCK and groups that host private parties often post invites here first. And the site is so popular that it’s a better marketing tool than their own websites.
The information on their website is out of date in some places but there is still a good deal of relevant content which will be of interest.
Red Hot Pie
If you’ve read any of our Aussie city guides, you’ll know that we’re big advocates of Red Hot Pie as a swinging resource. And yes, what’s good for the Aussies is just as effective across the Tasman sea here in Auckland.
It’s less “swinger-only” and more a general adult dating site, so you’ll find everything from curious singles to full poly couples and kinksters.
The good bit is the modern design and mobile app – it’s much slicker than Kiwi Swingers, and easy to use on the go.
Swingers.co.nz
Swingers.co.nz has been around forever, and while it’s nowhere near as busy as Kiwi Swingers these days, it still has a small loyal following. The site works more like personal ads than a social network – you browse listings, email people, and wait for a reply.
It’s simple, sometimes painfully so, but some Auckland couples and singles prefer it so we’ll include it anyway.
They also have a decent resource covering local dogging locations – yep, there’s plenty of that just outside of Auckland!
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