Auckland NSA: The Casual Encounters Guide

No strings attached sex, casual encounters, hook ups, adult personals, one night stands or road gigs; whatever you want to call it, there are always ways to get free sex in any city: Auckland is no different.

There are women who are just as horny as you are looking for that next exciting tryst with a stranger.

In this guide, we’ll take a look at the NSA Auckland scene. We’ll look at how to find a casual encounter for a night of passion, without having to venture to one of the city’s busy pick up bar spots.

Finding a Casual Encounter in Auckland

The Auckland Casual Encounters Guide
The Auckland Casual Encounters Guide

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Classifieds are the key to finding lusty women for a one night stand, but you need to be careful using these sites. Primarily to make sure that you are not arranging a hook up with an escort who will want payment for services rendered.

Trust us: It’s an easy mistake to make!

Most classified website that advertise casual encounters are free to join and to browse but, if you want to make contact with a member, they will require payment. One way or another, your casual encounter won’t be entirely free but access to a national database of available one night stands might be better value than paying for one night of sex.

Let’s take a look at some of the free adult personals for Auckland…

Locanto Adult Personals

An international website with coverage across New Zealand (and Australia), Locanto has a quality adult personals section which can be filtered by Auckland district as well as by persuasion (TS seeking men, gay, bi, couples).

There are a range of women looking for sex from bored housewives to young women needing entertainment. The ads are explicit in their wants and you can expect to exchange photographs before arranging any meetup.

While you can’t guarantee that a photo will be accurate, it will certainly give you a good excuse for leaving if she doesn’t look like the same person…

Craigslist Auckland

Synonymous with the casual encounter, Craigslist has a huge classified section.

Craigslist Auckland Casual Encounters
The good, the bad, and the ugly of Craigslist Auckland Casual Encounters

You are able to filter the 1000s of results by distance from a postal code, age, date posted and even to include only those ads that have an image.

(As well as by W4M, M4W, and your particular preference…)

The Auckland site is a very simple one which works to your advantage.

There is a distinct lack of html, adverts and coding which can ensure fast download wherever you are. The site is completely free to use and only requires the most basic of registration, an email address. The problem with Craigslist is that almost 80% of adverts are found to be from escorts, or fraudulent or scams.

Exercise caution with any adverts as many are run by prostitutes who will expect to be paid.

If you are going to pay for sex, there are far better options in Auckland’s many brothels.

Other NSA Sites for Auckland Singles

These sites aren’t classifieds or adult personals. They are more traditional sign-up sites where you have a profile and message other users based on the attributes set.

Adult Friend Finder

The legendary Adult Friend Finder (AFF) community is the world’s largest of its kind for grown-ups to meet, mingle and engage in a little grown-up fun…

The site is popular with the swinging community, so there’s opportunities here for everything from your typical weekend hookup to a full-blown gangbang.

Adult Matchmaker

Adult Matchmaker offers a safe alternative to Craigslist for women and men looking for casual sex in New Zealand. Members pay for access and to become verified which makes them more active.

Membership is costly at around $50 a month but has some of the highest user satisfaction rates in the industry, especially for those living in the cities.


A free online dating site which is based on casual encounters, RateMyBody asks its members to rate the photos of other members. You are then able to search for users based on their ratings as well as access other personal information. To be able to contact other members you need to pay subscription fees.

They have a portal for Auckland members:

Plenty of Fish

Although POF has a reputation for being a dating website where you can find your soulmate there are just as many members who are seeking casual encounters.

The largest of its kind in the world, Plenty of Fish attracts 14 million visitors every day including plenty from the Auckland area.

Members are more likely to be genuine and there is a good standard of information that is required in order to post an ad. Photos tend not to be photoshopped and seem real (most of the time). There are a range of women available from university students, bored wives and single women who are just looking for no strings attached sex. Access to the site is free but there are paid, premium areas which require subscription.

POF is a surprisingly underrated choice for NSA fun.

No Strings Dating

This popular site is free to join but you will have to pay membership fees to be able to access the contact features. Tapping into the culture of casual sex amongst university students, married women and promiscuous singles the site has 1000s of users in New Zealand. NSD also has plenty of spin off interest sites so if you are specifically looking for something they will be sure to be able to satisfy.

As the name implies, a good choice for no strings Auckland fun.

Buddy Fuck

Buddy Fuck is a free to join website for anyone looking for casual sex with a regular partner or multiple ones. You are required to register in order to access the contact features but you can browse before doing so. There are hundreds of users registered in the Auckland area; however the site does attract plenty of working girls who use the ads as a way of securing new business.

Forbidden Ads

100% free sex classifieds with Forbidden Ads, this site is arranged by those seeking casual encounters, adult personals, dating, friendship and lost connections — meaning you can access possible hook-ups quite quickly. The site is still taking off in NZ but it is worth a check to see what and who is available.

Got any recommendations for finding no strings sex in Auckland?

Any classified sites we’ve missed?

Let us know in the comments.