According to the latest annual Great Australian Sex Census (2013/14) prepared by Red Hot Pie, 5.6% of married Australians describe themselves as swingers. With an added 4.4% of those in a committed but open relationship, a conservative figure of the total swingers in the country is placed at around a million people.
With figures suggesting that 32% of couples would consider the lifestyle, could swingers clubs in Australia be hard pushed to service the demands if more of us opted for an open partnership?
Fortunately, most states in Australia have plenty of options for anyone who is curious or to entertain visiting couples and singles. In this complete guide to Australia’s best swinger clubs we go state to state to make sure you don’t miss any swapping action.
New South Wales
Let’s start with the country’s biggest state, New South Wales.
Home to a population of over 7.7 million people, the region boasts some great locations including Bondi Beach, Newcastle and Wollongong. Not to mention the state capital of Sydney which more than 60% of New South Wales calls home.
Sydney is a hot spot for swinging, attracting the folks from the Australian Capital Territory as well as a good selection from the city’s 8 million tourists each year.
It is estimated that around seven swinging events are held each weekend throughout the state.
We’ve selected the best swinger clubs in this Australian state as well as some venues you can catch some lifestyle action.
Sydney Area
Couples Club
226 Commonwealth Street, Surry Hills, NSW 2010
http://www.couplesclub.com.au/
The Couples Club is situated in the Surry Hills suburb of the city (about 2km south of the CBD) and is a council approved sex-on-premises venue.
Originally opening over twenty years ago, the venue is one of the country’s oldest and best known swingers clubs.
Set up like a nightclub, a recent facelift saw the installation of some state-of-the-art sound equipment and an upgrade to the rest of the club. Often described as an indulgent fantasy heaven for swingers, members can enjoy the spa, adventurous play equipment and the comfortable yet elegant bedrooms. Two orgy rooms provide plenty of space for group play and there is plenty of room to socialise in the bar and lounge.
Guys under 35 are welcome on Thursday and Sundays (8pm to 12am –single guys from 9.30pm only) with couples and single women only during peak sessions (Friday and Saturday, 9pm to 3am).
There is no need to pre-book and the venue is not members only. Admission is charged as follows:
| Days | Couples | Single Females | Single Males |
| Thursday & Sunday | $100 | Free | $150 |
| Friday & Saturday | $150 | $50 | n/a |
Some evenings have themed events running so do check the website in advance.
Note: The club is a BYO alcohol and there are no credit card facilities on site.
Our Secret Spot
93 Crown Street, Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
http://www.oursecretspot.com.au/
Our Secret Spot opened in Darlinghurst in 2014. The club attracts a good mix of ages and backgrounds and provides excellent facilities for single women and couples looking for some swinging action.
A tasteful and modern club, facilities are varied and helped win Our Secret Spot the 2017 AAIA Award for Best Swingers Venue.
Regular events are held and they even invite special guests along for sessions in rope play
The venue does not accept single male on any night.
Admission and opening times are as follows (member couples receive a discount):
| Day | Opening Hours | Couples | Single Women |
| Thursday | 8.00pm to 1.00am | $100 | $20 |
| Friday | 8.30pm to 3.00am | $150-$200 | $30-$50 |
| Saturday | 8.30pm to 3.00am | $200 | $50 |
The club is BYO alcohol but mixers are provided free of charge.
Bondi Swingers
The location of meetings of this exclusive club vary each night but generally take place at a luxury apartment or five-star penthouse in the city of Sydney or near Bondi Beach.
Parties are members only and take place every Friday night (in Sydney) and the first Saturday of the month (in Bondi/Sydney).
There are no single males allowed at any of the club events.
There are no joining fees for membership, but you must make an application at least 72 hours prior to an event with a photo. Membership is elitist and is selected based on looks, size and age (18-40) so make sure you get your best side(s).
Entry to events is usually only permitted between 9pm and 11pm and last until 4am with admission being charged as follows:
| Day | Single Female | Couples |
| Friday | $20 | $50 |
| Saturday | $50 | $200 |
Yes, entrance fees aren’t the cheapest but you are paying for a high-standard of guest and luxury surroundings so attendance is usually very good.
Aarows
17 Bridge St, Rydalmere NSW 2116
Primarily a gay and bisexual club, Aarows is an open club to all genders and has been running (at different locations) since 1990.
Split over two floors, the club has plenty to play with including a dungeon, motorbike fantasy room and spa. The orgy rooms have places for voyeurs but it is the gloryhole maze which is by far the most popular feature in the club.
You will find that the clientele is mostly male but you can also find trans girls and swinging straight couples. Otherwise age, shapes and sizes are all mixed.
Aarows is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week and is just 30 minutes west of Sydney’s CBD.
Raptures
18 Ferndell Street, South Granville
Located 25km to the west of the CBD, Raptures has been running swinging events for 25 years.
The club is open as follows with admission charges detailed below:
| Day | Opening Hours | Couples | Single Women | Single Men |
| Friday & Saturday | 8.00pm to 3.00am | $100 | $20 | $120-$140 |
| Sunday-Thursday | 10.00am to 12.00pm | – | – | $80 |
| Gangbang (Weds) | 12.30pm to 3.30pm | $50 | $20 | $100 |
| Gangbang (Sat) | 4.00pm to 7.00pm | $50 | $20 | $100 |
The club runs a happy hour every weekday except Wednesday (gangbangs) when entry is just $80 for single men between 12.00pm and 1.00pm.
Bookings need to be made for gangbangs to assist with numbers and all guests must be registered members.
Church of Kink and BBC Play Pen
Beaumont Hills
A private club, members are almost exclusively couples but some singles are allowed depending on the numbers and event.
As the name would suggest, the Church of Kink should appeal to lovers of BBC and they meet for gangbangs and fantasy play at least once a month.
Donations of $50 per couple are invited and $30 for singles. Alcohol is BYO.
Enquiries can be made via 0478808657.
Newcastle Area
Hunter Liaisons
Hunter Valley
A private club that hosts parties in the Hunter Valley, events are by invitation only through an existing network of couples and singles. You can enquire about upcoming events and availability by contact the organisers on 0457043240.
Novocastrian Social Swingers
Hunter Valley
This is a private swingers group meeting at various members houses in the Hunter Valley on the first Saturday of each month.
The group is strictly couples only but welcome enquiries from new members. The current group is a mix of ages and backgrounds.
Contact the groups organisers on novasocswingers@gmail.com for more details.
Central Coast
Lifestyle Connexions
Gosford Area
This private group based in the central coast area currently has a base of around 30 couples who meet regularly.
They hold two types of party; a dinner event for socialising and then play parties for swinging action.
The group is couples only and are generally a sophisticated bunch though mixed in age. Parties aren’t regular, so you will need to be on the mailing list to get prior notice of events but generally they attract around 60 people.
Attendance is by prior arrangement only, but they are always open to new membership enquiries. You can contact the groups organisers on 0413 319 658 or via email party@thelifestyle.tv
Victoria
Australia’s second largest state, Victoria is home to 6 million people and is considered by many as Australia’s swinging capital. Compared to New South Wales’s eight swinging parties each weekend, Melbourne alone is thought to host fifteen lifestyle events.
Let’s take a look at the best swingers clubs in Victoria.
Melbourne
Attunga Swingers Club
482 D Glenhuntly Road Elsternwick, Melbourne
Established in 2005 and fully renovated in 2013, Attunga Swingers Club is held at the Bay City Sauna. The venue has a fully licensed bar and features multiple play areas, large spa with sauna and steam room plus group lounge and orgy rooms.
The club won an AAIA Award in 2009 for Best Swingers Party.
Entry for all evenings starts at 8.30pm with a smart casual dress code; after 11.00pm guests must strip down to lingerie and underwear.
During non-swingers nights, the sauna is primarily regarded as a gay cruising venue and has a suckatorium and sling room.
Open daily from midday, the swinging night is held on a Tuesday when you can also book a massage whilst on site. Admission is $40 for single guys, $15 for the girls and $35 for couples.
The club is also open on Saturday nights for people of all sexual orientations. Entry to these nights is charged at $100 for single men, $30 for single ladies and $60 for couples.
The last Saturday of the month is a couples and ladies only night with entry charged at $35 per person.
Blondeez
A private members group for couples and single men and women, parties are held every Friday and Saturday night from 9.00pm to 2.00am.
Fridays are players nights and Saturdays are gang bang nights. Entry is charged as follows:
| Day | Couples | Single Women | Single Men |
| Friday | $30 | Free | $80 |
| Saturday | $40 | Free | $100 |
Members range from 21 to 65 and all guests must book in advance before attending any event. The address is given out on confirmation of booking.
Debauchery
A private club for couples and single women only events are usually held on the third Saturday of each month though additional dates are put on (check website for details).
The venue has full AC and has a heated spa pool in addition to dedicated rooms. The club has been running since 1994 and is a popular private house party in the Melbourne area.
There are usually around 80-100 guests at a party aged between 20 and 40. New members are invited to contact the organisers.
Club Asia
Kororoit Creek Rd, Williamstown VIC 3016, Australia
Parties are held every six weeks at this private club. Couples and single females only, guests can be Caucasian or Asian.
The club has been operating since 2014 and has good reviews from regular partygoers. Food is available for all guests and champagne is free for ladies.
Bookings must be made directly with the club organisers on 0431322445.
Femme Fantasie
Werribee
This members only club is held in a private residence 30 minutes to the west of Melbourne.
They hold two regular party nights; couples, ladies and single men under-40 on Fridays and couples/single ladies on Saturdays.
Single men must submit photographs before being confirmed as members and should be well presented and groomed at all events.
Friday evenings start at 9.00pm and run through to 2.00am with Saturday nights beginning at 9.30pm and going on until late.
The Monkey Club
Known in Melbourne as one of the best swinging clubs in Australia, the Monkey Club is arranged over two floors. Rooms are each styled in a luxurious manner and the venue has some great facilities.
The club operates a screening policy for all guests and photographs must be provided before your booking is confirmed. The club does pride itself on selecting only attractive and fit guests for their parties.
The club holds two parties each month for both couples and single ladies only as well as an open night. Event dates are available via the website and include details of the evenings theme.
Payment must be made in advance by internet transfer (no cash on the night).
Guests should be under the age of 39 with entrance fees of $120 for couple and $50 for single women, guys are charged at $150.
Shed 16
16 Cumberland Drive, Seaford VIC 3198
Offering full spa facilities as well as massage (Monday nights only), Shed 16 has a licensed bar on site and offers the following facilities:
- Sling rooms
- Porn lounges
- Voyeur rooms
- A ‘Suckatorium’
- Dark rooms
- Outdoor courtyard smoking area
Opening hours and admission fees are as follows:
| Day | Hours | Couples | Single Women | Single Men |
| Monday | 7.00pm til late | $40 | $20 | $45 |
| Thursday | 12.00pm to 5.00pm | $25 | Free | $25 |
| Friday | 8.00pm til late | $50 | Free | n/a |
| Saturday | 8.00pm til late | $35 | $20 | $50 |
Madisons
Oakleigh, VIC 3166
www.facebook.com/madisonshouseparties
Parties at this private club are held on the last Friday of the month and, with a minimum guest age of 28, should appeal to the more mature followers of the lifestyle.
Parties run from 8.30pm to 1.00am and guests should contact the organisers in advance to confirm their booking.
Inner Circle
http://melbourneinnercircle.com/
This group is more like a mixer for swingers than a party. You can meet up with like minded lifestyle couples in Melbourne using this service. They also provide details of parties being held at various private locations in the state capital area.
The Play Pen
East Melbourne
The club is BYOB with a casual dress code (optional strip down later in the evenings).
Dates for events vary so you will need to contact the organisers to get on the mailing list.
Entry is charged at $60 for couples, $10 for single ladies and $120 for the fellas.
Bookings for parties held by The Play Pen should be made three days in advance with details of the location being sent out to confirmed guests by SMS. Please note that screening for single guys is in place so be prepared to send in your best photos.
Saint & Sinners Ball
Melbourne
www.saintsandsinnersball.com.au
Held every year to celebrate New Years Eve, the Saint and Sinners Ball has been running for 18 years and is usually a sell-out event. There are usually a couple of other large celebrations during the rest of the year (full details on the website).
Venues vary for each event with details given out when you make a booking and pay for your tickets.
Parties include erotic entertainment including podium dancers, a B&D area with mistresses meting out punishment to all takers.
New Year’s Eve parties have up to 800 guests with other parties attracting up to 1000 swingers.
The next ball starts at 8.30pm on 31st December 2017 and runs until 4.30am on 1 January 2018.
Tickets are priced at $110 for couples and $55 for single females.
Stilettos Parties
Coburg, Melbourne
Reopened in 2016, the Stilettos Parties are held during the day on Fridays and on Friday and Saturday evenings.
Single guys are welcome to attend on Friday but must be under the age of 40. Saturday evenings are couples and single women only.
Bookings must be made in advance and can be directed to the clubs organiser on 0417 352 834.
South West Victoria
The Farm Swingers Party
Great Ocean Road, South West Victoria
Parties at this private club are for single ladies and couples with four pre-selected single men only.
The venue is very rural and benefits from having no neighbours so outdoor play is encouraged with a double hammock, outdoor massage table and sex swing in the garden to enjoy the rural and private setting.
Bookings should be made in advance via the clubs organisers on 0488 1666 80 or via email thefarmsouthwest@gmail.com
Queensland
With a population of 4.8 million, Queensland has the highest proportion of swingers in Australia with 10% of the state involved in the lifestyle. That’s almost half a million swingers!
So many people, so little time….without further ado, we bring you the best swingers club in Queensland.
Brisbane
Mike’s Place
Unit 12/6 Maunder St, Slacks Creek QLD 4127
http://mikesplace.net.au/
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A licensed swingers club in Brisbane, Mike’s Place is a popular venue that regularly attracts a good mix of people. The age range is generally 20-40 though some nights can seem to attract a more mature crowd.
The facilities at Mike’s Place are great and include several dedicated rooms and an outdoor spa.
The venue holds open parties for couples and singles on Friday nights and couples/single ladies only on Saturday nights. Fridays are the busier night with up to 90 guests and around 40 on Saturdays.
Single guys must book in advance for Friday nights as spaces are limited.
Parties start at 8.00pm and end at 2.00am.
Diversionz
6 Allgas Street, Slacks Creek, QLD 4127
Another fully licensed swingers club in Brisbane, Diversionz is just 15 minutes from the CBD.
The venue has six large play rooms, sex swing, outdoor queen size bed and spa. A large lounge area features a strippers pole on the dancefloor, staffed BYO bar and digital jukebox.
The club is open every Friday and Saturday night from 8.00pm to 2.00pm (‘Big Bang’ nights close at 1.00pm).
Fridays tend to be a general couples and single nights with Saturday being reserved for themed events like bi-nights, gang bang parties (aka ‘Big Bangs’) or special celebrations.
Entry charges are the same on both nights and are as follows:
- Couples: $40
- Ladies: $10
- Guys: $60
There are no membership requirements for entry but guys are asked to book in advance so that organisers can ensure the male to female guest ratio is well balanced.
Gold Coast
Chateau Vino
22 Kamholtz Court, Molendinar, QLD 4214
Chateau Vino is a fully licensed and council approved swinging club which has won several awards.
It’s a popular venue principally because of the atmosphere which is friendly and relaxed. Opened in 2011, it’s a busy venue that has plenty of space to entertain the guests. Facilities include:
- 10 large play areas
- Light bondage/BDSM room
- Orgy room
- Indoor social area
- Outdoor covered smoking area
- Staffed BYO bar
- Pool table
- Large nightclub style dancefloor
Guests range in age from 30-55 and the non-elitist membership means that there is a good mix of backgrounds, sizes and shapes.
Ladies go free every night but single guys (Friday nights only) must pay $100. Lone fellas can attend parties on a Saturday if they are invited by a couple or single female. Couples are charged at $80 on either night but can save money if they pay up front for both Friday and Saturday.
Since the closure of Rumourz (formerly Club Whispers) and the Gold Coast Swingers Club, Chateau Vino is now a much busier venue.
Inner Circle
http://goldcoastinnercircle.com/
Offering a range of exclusive monthly events for younger swingers the Inner Circle is an elite member only swinging club in the Gold Coast.
Strict membership screening polices mean that only fit, young and attractive people are invited to their evenings.
Usually held in two parts, parties start with dinner at a restaurant to socialise formally. Guests are then invited back to a private penthouse or hotel room for more intimate get togethers.
Western Australia
The population of 2.6 million people living in Western Australia pretty much centres around Greater Perth and the area is home to 75% of the state’s residents It’s no surprise that all of our swinger clubs in WA are based here but perhaps a coincidence that this is because Perth is one of the most remote cities in the world…?
Perth
Club 103
103 Abernathy Road, Perth, WA
An open-minded club in the heart of Belmont, Club 103 has a central lounge area with a pool table, bar, vending machines and plenty of socialising space. There is one playroom downstairs with a large bed and swing. Upstairs is fitted with three more play spaces plus a dungeon (complete with St. Andrew’s Cross, wall-mounted suspension points and flogging bench.
It’s a friendly club that is popular with locals; particularly those who enjoy a bit more kink with their swing.
The club is open during the day Wednesday to Friday between 12.00pm and 5.00pm plus Friday and Saturday nights from 8.00pm to 2.00am. Evening guests are asked to book in advance and ensure they arrive by 10.30pm after which doors will be locked.
Entrance fees apply and $50 for single men, $30 per couple and $10 for TS/TV’s
North of River VIP Swingers Club
It’s unclear if this club is still active but at last enquiry the organisers were still taking bookings for their events.
The club is more of a social gathering than an all-action event but should be an interesting way to meet other like-minded couples in the area to arrange private get-togethers.
Contact 0403 849 402 for more details.
Private Parties Perth
www.facebook.com/privatepartiesperth
A VIP swingers club held every other Saturday, Private Parties Perth has a good calendar of mixed events including ‘Lust Cruises’, limo parties and even mile high events.
Whatever the event and wherever it’s being held, admission is ticket only and a screening process is in place.
Pleasure Lounge
Burswood, Perth, WA
An invite only club, the Pleasure Lounge has some good clean facilities including a spa, three luxury play rooms and a dance floor with BYO bar.
A classy venue, the dress code is smart and all parties require pre-booking with limited spaces available for single guys.
There is a mixture of events running throughout the week including gang bangs and mixers with a summary of the details below:
| Day | Hours | Couples | Single Women | Single Men |
| Thursday | 8.00pm to 11.00pm | $30 | Free | $50 |
| Friday | 8.30pm to 2.00am | $50 | $20 | $90 |
| Saturday | 8.30pm to 2.00am | $70 ($40 B4 9pm) | $20 | $90 |
| Sunday | 5.00pm to 9.00pm | $30 | $10 | $50 |
Sensationz Adult Club
3/22 Chullora Bend, Jandakot WA 6164
A licensed swinger club 30 minutes to the south of the city, Sensationz is a club of pairs; two saunas, two private play rooms and two pool tables. There is, of course, a large open play area as well.
The club is a nudist venue and runs a variety of regular events only some of which are suitable for single guys. You can find the full details via Red Hot Pie.
Sensationz is open as follows:
- Wednesday: 7.30pm to 11.30pm
- Friday: 7.30pm to 1.00am
- Saturday: 8.00pm to 2.00am
- Sunday: 1.00pm to 6.00pm
Perth Inner Circle
Much like the other listings for Inner Circle, this network of elite singles and couples offers a no-obilgation, two-part evening to mingle with other adventurous people.
Events can be sporadic but tend to follow the same format; dinner/and or cocktails at an exclusive venue followed by an after party for those who want to get to know guests more intimately. The second part of the evening is usually at a select private residence in the city.
As you would expect, the screening is pretty tight but the group welcome enquiries from all newcomers.
South Australia
With 70% of the population of South Australia living around Adelaide, the state’s swinging community are centred around this liberal and free-spirited city.
The opal capital doesn’t have a huge number of clubs but there are several good groups and venues that keep a regular network of parties going.
Adelaide
Shh Adult Parties – Adelaide
Warradale, SA
This group hold an open night once a month on a Saturday though there are other private events they can arrange.
The club has been running since 2014 and has built a good network of local swingers including couples and singles.
Facilities are good and include a covered outdoor area, six play rooms which include the usual sex swings and furniture.
Tickets must be pre-booked with the organisers and confirmed numbers are usually 70-90 people with a ratio of 2:1 (male to female). As a result, space for single men are limited.
Parties start at 8.00pm and run through to 3.00am on Sunday morning.
Current prices are:
- Couples: $70
- Single Women: $30
Some special events are run such as on New Year’s Eve and prices and times for these vary.
Kimmi’s Parties
Running regular meetings for local members and guests, Kimmi hosts play parties at her home in Adelaide.
The venue is set-up before an event and rooms are available for play as well as socialising.
The mix of couples and singles who attend is really varied with ages between 20-55 represented as well as all kinds of shape size and background.
With events for 2017 now closed, the 2018 events calendar will be available online shortly.
Address details are provided once a confirmed booking has been paid for.
Inner Circle
http://adelaideinnercircle.com/
Once again, Inner Circle is a members only group that meet in the city for exclusive and upmarket social gatherings.
The set-up is simple, pre-screened guests are invited to an evening of two halves; the first is usually a dinner or drinks at a luxurious location followed by an after party.
The social aspect appeals to this elite group who are often young and attractive professionals.
Open to couples and singles, enquiries about events can be made online but do expect to be able to provide good photographs and excellent credentials.
Outside Adelaide
BoHo Estate
Clare Road, Kapunda, SA 5373
http://www.bohoparties.com.au/
After a brief closure, the BoHo Estate is back up and running again with ‘Minxie’ still at the helm.
The club holds monthly meetings at a private residence about an hour and a half north of Adelaide (20 minutes from Gawler).
The house is set up for each party to include a naughty nook in the kitchen for saleable goods like lingerie, toys and accessories. Rooms are themed and you can find BDSM gear and furniture in the 50 Shades Retreat, an Ultra Violet Room and the calming Lana space.
Outside is given a similar treatment and the garden has a seven seater spa, daybeds and swingers teepee.
Since reopening, there has only been one event with tickets priced at $100 for couples/single men and $70 for single women. You can also pay for accommodation at an additional $55-$90.
Australian Capital Territory and the Northern Territory
Home to just 398,300 and 245,700 people respectively, the ACT and the NT don’t have any swinger clubs anymore. The word in the community suggests that most lifestyle members in the area meet up with locals through sites like Red Hot Pie or Fling Finder.
Most swingers in the ACT belong to clubs in Sydney and make a weekend of it when they visit events. See ‘New South Wales’ above for more details.
As for the Northern Territory, there is a group who may still meet up regularly called Wet Dreamz.
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