It’s a somewhat curious scene for swingers in Sydney.
You’d expect that a city with such a high concentration of legal adult services would have a gigantic swinging scene to support ‘The Lifestyle’. But you’d be disappointed…
Many swingers clubs have come and gone over the years. Most of the active Sydney swinging community is based online, or connected to the one major club that remains (see below).
Still, whether you are looking for a wifeswap party, a traditional group sex club, or just a lively weekend orgy, there are a few good options if you know where to look.
Are There Any Good Swinger Clubs In Sydney?
Short answer: yes, but not as many as you might expect!
One club stands head and shoulders above the rest:
Our Secret Spot: By Far The Most Popular Choice
191 Parramatta Rd, Annandale NSW 2038, Australia
http://www.oursecretspot.com.au/
Our Secret Spot is a name familiar to just about any couple that has dipped its toes in the Sydney swinging scene.
It first opened in March 2014 over in the Darlinghurst area (just a short walk from Hyde Park). It has since migrated over to Annandale / Parramatta and has become the premier lifestyle venue in the city.
Their awards cabinet doesn’t lie:
OSS run regular events throughout the year from cabaret balls to uniform parties. The club is usually well attended by a good range of ages and backgrounds. It’s tastefully decorated throughout and provides excellent facilities including a dedicated make-up area for the ladies.
The venue is split in to three floors and includes a fully equipped dungeon in the basement. There’s an open shower space, a one-sided mirror voyeur room and a wooden crafted bar (BYO) for chilling and mingling with the crowd.
You can expect a diverse crowd here, perhaps reflecting the lack of choice where other clubs have closed over the years.
You’ll see couples from their early 20s through to experienced couples in their 50s. There will occasionally be single women here, too.
The biggest problem is getting through the door. Many events are sold out, or extremely busy, and it can feel like an attack on the senses if you are new to the community.
Don’t worry though. Find a chilled out spot on the ground floor and you’ll soon be put at ease.
Fun4Two
5 Clyde St, Rydalmere NSW 2116, Australia
Fun4Two is a relatively new club in Rydalmere.
It emerged post-Covid as a welcome alternative to OSS, largely driven by meet-ups and events organised on Red Hot Pie (the popular swingers app).
This labyrinth-like venue has a distinctly different feel to OSS. It’s dark, gritty and if it feels like you’re co-sharing the space with a local brothel, it’s because — well, you are.
Fun4Two is well-known for its regular Newbie Nights, typically held on Saturdays with a late-night crowd of both young and old swingers. Things can escalate pretty quickly, with private rooms on the top floor hosting sex swings and some wild group sex parties. Downstairs is more chilled with pole dancing and pool tables to whittle away the early hours.
Allure
Allure hosts exclusive private sex parties with a strict screening process to ensure that the crowd lives up to its “young and beautiful” reputation.
They recently held a Masquerade party where “60 Ladies and Gentleman dusted off their lingerie, suits & dresses and made their way to Allure for an evening of drinks and debauchery“.
Apply through their website for more information.
Sydney Inner Circle
Another private swingers community, active in the Sydney region. This group hosts sophisticated cocktail parties, “not just sex parties”. Although we’re pretty sure that’s what they turn in to. 😉
You can reach out to the Inner Circle via Red Hot Pie.
What Happened to The Couples Club?
Established over twenty years ago, the Couples Club in the popular suburbs of Surry Hills was one of Australia’s finest swinging clubs. Sadly it closed in 2023 and took with it one of the best weekly meet-ups for Sydney swingers.
The club had a spa, bar and lounge and was decorated in an indulgently luxurious style to offer the best in comfort and elegance. There were plenty of shower facilities, six bedrooms, two orgy rooms and some sex equipment for the more adventurous! The club ran regular themed nights and events with the third Friday of every month being for first timers.
Most of the members who came here have moved over to OSS, or private meet-ups organised through sites like Red Hot Pie (see below).
Is The Bondi Swingers Club Still Around?
Another casualty of a once-thriving swinging scene.
Some of you may remember the small private ‘Bondi Swingers’ community.
It used to have a website for NSW swingers, but the website no longer exists and there is scant information on any official meet-ups.
With a strict policy of no single males, this tight-knit community was about as exclusive as it gets. Held in a luxury five start penthouse apartment near Bondi Beach, the group would meet on Friday nights (and the first Saturday of the month).
Bondi was established by a group of single women, attendance to a party was for members only who had to apply online. The entry requirements were also pretty restrictive; young, fit and attractive. Parties were always dress-up affairs with guests being asked to arrive in a face mask.
The group appears to have fractured in any ‘official’ sense, although we suspect that many of the members remain active on the swinging communities below.
Sydney Swinger Websites
There are plenty of Australian Lifestyle websites where couples advertise directly to others interested in swinging without the exclusivity of being a club member.
Many are paid for sites which allow you a free trial membership to browse but the ability to contact advertisers comes at a premium. The best of these are listed below:
Red Hot Pie
Red Hot Pie is one of several casual dating sites that has found popularity in the Sydney region. It boasts a worldwide membership of over 3 million users, and the primary market is Australia.
While you do get singles trying their luck, the site is best known for its deep roots with the swinging scene. It hosts regular community events, meet-ups and parties in the Sydney area.
We know of many frequent visitors to OSS (and former visitors of The Couples Club) who are still active on Red Hot Pie, mixing and mingling with fellow members of The Lifestyle, new and old. Check it out if you want to get involved.
Adult MatchMaker
https://www.adultmatchmaker.com.au
Claiming to be Australia’s premier swinging website, Adult MatchMaker has hundreds of registered couples in the Sydney area looking for likeminded people to arrange house parties with.
This is one of the largest swingers databases in all of Australia. It’s not just for swingers though, so you will find many singles using AMM to scout out NSA Sydney fun.
SDC
While Red Hot Pie and AMM are both laser-focussed on the Aussie market, SDC is a global community for swingers that boasts one of the most extensive databases of its kind.
You’ll find plenty of local Sydneysiders (searchable by town or suburb), but the real benefit of this site is if you do any kind of international travelling. SDC has massive reach in every corner of the globe.
Adult FriendFinder
Similar to SDC but with less focus on swingers. AFF is the original casual encounter / online hookup tool.
It has profiles for hundreds of Sydney swingers, wife swappers and group sex enthusiasts. Just be aware that they are massively outnumbered by singletons and sex workers.
AFF is not the best site if you are looking for an intimate Sydney-focused community, but if you travel around Australia or abroad, this is a pretty lethal weapon to have in your hookup inventory.
Swingers Heaven
https://www.swingersheaven.com.au
No ambiguity with a member’s intentions on this site. Heaven has thousands of members in Sydney, and they’re all in to the lifestyle. It also has a unique live video chat feature which helps couples get to know each other before arranging a meet-up.
Looking For Something Different?
Sydney has many adult entertainment options – you can check out our guide for the best of the bunch.
If you want to enjoy some action without leaving the house/hotel, then there are several online ‘sex show’ options that might take your fancy…
Sites like Chaturbate and Bonga Cams allow you to pay for private cam shows for a fraction of the price of a GFE/PSE. These can be good options for amateur thrills…
Have you dabbled in the Sydney swingers scene? Are there any regular sex parties you can recommend?
Let us know your thoughts and reviews below.